My ex and I let our kids nest in my house. He comes every other weekend to spend time with them. They don't stress about moving from place to place.

His inability to discuss things with me, to share his thoughts and desires with me, is destroying my trust in him.

Talk to him about what his goals are in individual therapy and what your shared goals are in couples therapy. It’s possible that he’s as unclear on his motivations as you are. Unraveling that is a ...