His inability to discuss things with me, to share his thoughts and desires with me, is destroying my trust in him.

If that is true, envision what a scenario will be like if your husband follows the same pattern. Will it be upsetting, devastating, relationship-upending? Something else? What exactly would you be ...

My ex and I let our kids nest in my house. He comes every other weekend to spend time with them. They don't stress about moving from place to place.