Dear Abby advises an estranged sister who wants to inform her brother’s fiancee about his past as an abuser.

My MIL speaks to me only when my husband is around, and my FIL complains about everything — our streaming services, saying I need to buy more towels and complaining that we don’t have soda.

Ghosted by her brother, she's given up after a decade of trying to stay in touch. Dealing with sibling estrangement is not easy. He will always be her little brother.

Opinion Ask Amy: Should I tell my brother he tortured me emotionally when we were kids? Published: Oct. 11, 2023, 12:02 a.m.